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This actually made me cry tonight. 80% of girls at age ten were afraid of getting fat.
Are you kidding? Is this a bad joke? I am very intentional with my language, no using the word fat or diet.
"We'll be stronger"
"We'll be faster"
"We'll feel good after eating this apple"...
It's too easy to use positive words to shape kids into being healthy. Snide comments never motivated anyone.
What do you do to make sure your girls grow up knowing their bodies are so much more than something to look good in a swimsuit?